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Teenagers Scare The Living S**t out of....

by unpolished-diamond-x @ 15/07/2008 - 16:21:38

Everybody apparently.

I was on the bus on my own today. The journey was quite a long one so I had my i-pod in and was listening to some mellow music,you know,just a bit of indie.

I sat on the bus for around forty minutes and people came on and got off, and gradually the seats began to fill up.

Now don't get me wrong,I wouldn't be my first choice to sit next to on a bus either,I mean what with the smile and the friendliness,but the bus filled up and I watched people as they got on and scanned the lower deck for spare places to park themselves. Almost every time, and I'm not exaggerating, when they caught a glimpse of me their eyes would almost scream at me that they disapproved of my actual being there. Like I was some stain that should be removed. Nobody sat next to me,not that I really mind about that - I like having my own seat,but the fact that a couple of people actually chose to stand rather than sit next to someone my age upset me a little.

I don't know if its the signature white i-pod speakers that put them off. I think they might worry that I have blaring heavy metal or ear damaging dance music coming out.

I don't know if it's my general appearance, or if I give off a smell :))

But I do think that it's my age.

Nobody likes teenagers anymore.We've been stereotyped as hoodie-wearing, cigarette smoking, binge-drinking,school-skiving,knife-carrying, social misfits who form gangs and are ignorant and have nothing good to offer society.

You can't open a paper without hearing about how good-for-nothing we are. Any report you read about young people shoves them into stereotyped groups set up by our narrow minded and dare I say it,old fashioned,society. The media does not treat young people like people but instead sets them up as foreign creatures who are to be feared.

Perhaps if the media refrained from making us targets of hatred and using the image they have created of us to instill fear in everyone, people would come to realise that there are actually useful young members of society. Young people who do read the papers, who are literate and can hold a decent conversation,who do care about the world and its inhabitants,who do have valuable opinions and who are genuinely more than what they appear to and are commonly thought to be.

I'm not trying to excuse the behaviour of some teenagers today,but I sincerely wish society would waken up notice the rest of us.

Until Next Time
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SeasideManSeasideMan pro
15/07/08 @ 16:29

You're right of course, but the stabbings that are currently big news are all by teenage males. At least it's an improvement on the constant fear of dark-skinned people that used to be rife.

Tom.

unpolished-diamond-xunpolished-diamond-x [Member]
15/07/08 @ 16:45

I know a week hasn't gone by this year without another young person dying due to gang violence, in most cases with knives. And I'm not denying that knife crime is a big problem, particularly among young people. But I just feel its a shame that those of us who aren't out to get anyone are being shoved into the same social groupings as those who are.

And I would argue that it's not an improvement at all on the 'constant fear of dark-skinned people' that you talk about. Its not an improvement, its simply a change from one 'group' being used as a scape goat to another. Not an improvement. What makes it any better for the media to chastise and ridicule teenagers than it is for them to do the same thing to people of a different race or skin? I know the argument there would be that it's not racist so it must be a plus,but it is ageist.Just another form of discrimination.

Rant over :))
:wave:

P.S - This isn't me being argumentative by the way, this is just something I feel very strongly about :)

SeasideManSeasideMan pro
15/07/08 @ 16:53

Well unfortunately, newspapers always have to have a target group to hate and it's just unfortunate for you that you're in it at the moment. At least you'll grow out of it, which isn't the same for when skin colour is the target.

If you want to blame something here, it's 2 things: human nature and capitalism. Human nature is to want to read sensationalized stories, and that's why the papers do it. The other reason the papers do it is because it increases their circulation and profits, because of the 1st reason.

I wouldn't hold your breath waiting for either human nature or capitalism to change...

...but this phase will pass, and another target will be selected.

Tom.

FoxwriterFoxwriter [Member]
16/07/08 @ 11:09

I don't think it is your age.

No one sits next to me on trains either. :(

And I'm slightly over 21, don't have a hood, have no knife or I-Pod, never smoked or binge drank and I'm fairly sure I do not smell. Blue eyes, blond hair and average of build, neither grossly fat not vampire-thin, I present an entirely benign and amiable front to the world.

At least that is my opinion, but no one takes the adjacent seat unless the train is packed to capacity.

It is entirely possible that those who choose to stand may have creaky joints, piles, dicky backs or a morbid fear of public transport seating.

Or worry that they will be:

(a) chatted up, touched up or generally ogled at(if it's a man sitting in the seat) or,
(b) regarded by other passengers as a potential childfancier, dirty old man or sex-pest (in your case)

So, please don't feel victimised or offended by the apparent indifference of fellow public transport prisoners. In UK 2008 travelling is generally an uncomfortable, joyless experience to be endured rather than enjoyed.

People are not at their best in these circumstances.

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